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- "Before most women begin to feel sexual desire they must be 'talked' into it and
'touched' into it. Couples must remember the three 'T's' of female sexual desire and
arousal—talk, touch and time. For many women sexual desire doesn't manifest itself
until after sexual arousal."
- "Low sexual desire may result from (1) physiological causes, (2) psychological/emotional
factors, or (3) relationship issues that affect your ability to achieve God-ordained
sexual fulfillment in marriage."
- "Going through the motions sexually does little to satisfy. It's like eating a
Twinkie instead of a healthy home-cooked meal. The Twinkie may provide initial
appeasement, but satisfaction is short-lived—leaving emptiness and a hunger for more
and more. . . . A truly satisfying sexual relationship is like a home-cooked meal—it
fulfills both participants in a substantive way."
- "Some women regard orgasm as unnecessary because of their difficulty or inability to
experience it, or because of the skill, time and effort it may require. But the Lord surely
intended orgasm to be a regular part of lovemaking, not only for the husband, but also for
the wife."
- "The underlying factor in experiencing orgasm is the ability to relax, let go, and
enjoy. While this sounds deceptively easy, letting go actually requires a foundation of
healthy beliefs and attitudes regarding sex, as well as the ability to minimize mental
distractions that can keep a woman from focusing on her own pleasure."
- "Most cases of failure to attain orgasm that I have seen began with poor preparation
for marriage, a frustrating and fearful honeymoon, followed by a prolonged period of
disappointment, blundering, and boredom in marriage that conditioned the wife to feel
there was no hope for fulfillment."
- "Julie was thrilled to reach a point where she not only desired sexual relations with her
husband, but also felt a physiological need being fulfilled. . . 'It's amazing. I would have
never believed I could feel this way.'"
- "After orgasm, as the rush subsides, the tingling lingers, until it slowly fades, leaving a
warm glow. . . . All is well. You are emotionally, spiritually and physically content even
if only for a few moments. There has been a symbolic rebirth—a cleansing, purging and healing
of body and soul—clearing mental and physical tensions and leaving you feeling alive, complete
and whole."
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©Copyright 2006 Laura M. Brotherson. All Rights Reserved
Created Apr 6, 2003; Updated Apr 26, 2008
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