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- "Typically for men, the creation of 'sexual music' might be likened to pressing 'play' on
a CD player. But for women, sexual music is more like that of an instrument that must be tuned,
warmed up and played masterfully—as in a symphony of sexual interludes."
- "Though lovemaking is a natural process, what comes naturally will not
ultimately satisfy both husband and wife sexually."
- "For men sex is more of a reaction. For women sex is more of a decision. Men's
bodies can become sexually ready even when their intellect tells them 'No.' Women
must mentally agree to sex before their bodies can begin to respond sexually."
- "The Warm-up/Preparation phase allows women to mentally transition from
mommy mode to wife and intimate-companion mode."
- "Orgasm isn't just something that a man with intimate knowledge and skillful
stimulating techniques provides a woman—it is something she must also be
willing and able to let herself experience."
- "Thoughts are instructions to the brain. If negative thoughts about sex or
your husband creep in they become instructions telling your body how to feel. . . .
Are your thoughts conducive to enjoyable and passionate relations, or are they
detrimental and distracting—diverting you from feelings of love and pleasure?"
- "A woman's arousal is like a gift, delicately wrapped in layers of tissue paper
each needing to be carefully unwrapped. If there has been sufficient warm-up or mental
preparation, foreplay can increase arousal and create sexual desire within the wife."
- "In addition to the Good Girl Syndrome, insufficient sexual education regarding
the clitoris and the feminine sexual response can keep many women from understanding,
experiencing and delighting in their God-given sexuality."
- "Even a simple and slow, 'Mmmmm!' when something feels good can help each other learn
what works and what doesn't."
- "The state of arousal is a magical state of being. It represents a mental and
psychological letting go of earthly cares and slipping into the sexual sphere where
uninhibited pleasurable sensations reign. . . . You will feel no desire to discuss
the day's events or schedule your week with your husband while in the state of sexual arousal."
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©Copyright 2006 Laura M. Brotherson. All Rights Reserved
Created Apr 6, 2003; Updated Apr 26, 2008
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