Straight Talk About Strengthening Marriage Intimately
 
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  Chapter 16: Preparing Future Generations for Sexual Fulfillment in Marriage—When to Teach and How
 
  • "The four most critical times that teaching is needed are: (1) before the age of accountability; (2) before puberty; (3) before dating; and (4) before marriage."

  • "While 'physical puberty' may begin around the age of eleven, 'social puberty' often begins when a child enters school (around age 6)."

  • "Providing for your children's emotional needs prepares their heart and mind to be more receptive to your teachings and to the Spirit."

  • "Sex education can become a special family tradition. . . . Children will begin to eagerly anticipate their annual tradition of a special date and discussion with Mom or Dad to receive the 'next installment' of their sex education."

  • "Sprinkle awe and wonder throughout your teachings with statements such as, 'Isn't your body amazing!' or, 'Isn't that a wonderful way for mommies and daddies to show their love for each other!"

  • "If parents can model a healthy acceptance and respect for their own sexuality, their children will be more likely to develop a healthy acceptance and respect for theirs. . . . The time and effort you put into making your marital relationship strong and secure is the greatest investment you can make for your children."

  • "Friends might try to tell you dirty jokes or be disrespectful about the relationship between a husband and wife. Don't listen to them. There should be an air of reverence and respect surrounding the intimate sexual relations between husband and wife."

  • "If anyone ever tries to make you do something or to touch them in a way that is wrong or that makes you uncomfortable, you need to remember to do these three things: (1) strongly tell them "NO!"; (2) get away as fast as you can; (3) and tell Mom or Dad or another adult."

  • "As parents teach beyond premarital issues of immorality to post-marital issues of sexual fulfillment, youth will be blessed to go into marriage with a healthy, positive sexual foundation. . . . Mutual sexual fulfillment will occur more quickly and easily, reversing the trend of sexual 'incompatibility' as a leading cause of divorce."